Your best bet is to drive as many of the suggested cars as you can. You might be surprised. As far as the lancer goes, I haven't heard much good about mitsubishi reliability. I don't have any first hand experience, but from looking at eclipses, not something I would want as a worry free DD. Not sure if the lancer is like the others, but I would research.
Also to consider is if you do want a reliable DD on a college students budget, don't plan on going FI on a NA vehicle. The setup, downtime, and tinker time will add up. Just like building a big XJ, it becomes a great vehicle but not cheap DD material. Maybe you have time, tools, and cash. I don't know. But in general, highly modified, cheap, and reliable don't happen together. But if you pick up a car that picks up the pace with tuning, bolt ons, psi increase, it isn't as likely to be a unreliable DD.
Just a few thoughts, I think you are definately on the right track in looking for AWD, great year round, and faster off the line.