Dear CommandoXJ98:
Chicks are not men with less hair, weird plumbing, interesting curvature, and softer, smoother fun parts.
They are a different species.
Let's say there's a problem: You, a man, say, "How can we fix this?" A woman says, "This is really inconvenient. Who can I convey my distaste of the situation to?"
Women
feel. Their view of the world is filtered through emotion. This is not an absolute, as anecdotal evidence will surely show.
Men
think. They use logic and reason to solve problems and evalute situations. This, too, is not an absolute, but is largely true.
Good luck. How old are you? I can understand the inconvenience of your mother being a naggy psycho, but if you're living in her house, you're kindof up the proverbial creek, aren't you? Female peers, on the other hand, can be dealt with in other ways. A good, firm, "OK, you're being a pain in the butt. Go away, and come back when you can be pleasant and reasonable." This may likely get you a loud tirade, at which time you simply walk away or ignore her, or just calmly ask her if she needs a firm spanking, as she's acting like a spoiled five-year old just denied candy.
Educational links, not politically correct:
http://www.themenscenter.com/busterb/index.htm
http://www.john-ross.net/advice.htm
http://www.john-ross.net/abby.htm
http://www.voxday.net/archive/2004/041904.html
http://www.voxday.net/archive/2004/020904.html
That's a good start. I've learned more about the opposite sex from those sites than anything else.
Bottom line: Don't take their crap. It's not easy, but it works. (I'm referring to your peers, not your mother. Respect your mother, though perhaps you must respect her from your own place somewhere, with Caller ID and a handy peep-hole in the door.)
(OK, bring on the "I'm offended by that misogynistic comment!" and the "How dare you say that women are different than men!" responses...)