Well I checked it, and sure enough there was power to the headlight connector I tested, drivers side, with the ignition and the head light switch off. So I pulled the relays one at a time, and did some iterative testing with my handy dandy
volt meter!!!!
First relay pulled and reinstalled, and I never got power back the head lights under those conditions listed above after 100 iterative variable combination tests.
The lights, switch, relays, bulbs....et., al., all work properly now. :dunno:
I suspect it was one more random visit from my old jeep friends, the "
Morphidite Electrons" clan!!!!
Thanks for help folks!!!!
I have real head lights now, so no more Oh Sh*t what did I just drive over at night now!!! LOL. Now I will have to look elsewhere for my evening adrenaline fix, LOL!