just to update because I dug through alot of threads over the past few months and hated finding no end threads
IT HAS STARTED AND RAN for about a day now, no issues discovered other than its still trying to find the right idle
after i started getting a little spark( by removing all the negative wires that attach below the coil and clamping them to the AC compressor mount) i quit messing with it for about a week
today i went and just turned the key and it started to run for a few second, then eventually started running close to normal again
I have no clue what worked- but thanks for everyones input, I have a sinking feeling that I may be back for help shortly