Whiplash_Syndicate
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- Greenbrier,TN
Well my son is 5 years old now and starting school in a couple weeks.He hasn't seen his mother in over 3 years and I over heard him telling someone he doesn't have a mom.The story.
I found out about him Nov. of 2006 and he was 6months old at the time.His mother came down from IL where she was living at the time and was going to stay at my moms cause i was living with current GF.(GF didnt like her but had never met her only thru mutual friend that quit hanging out with her when sons mom moved here b4 i knew her) GF decided it was alright if she stayed with us for a while.She had began to hang out with some of the people she hung with b4 moving to IL. My son got phenomena and was admitted to the hospital.At this time we had sent off for a DNA test but i didn't have any proof he was my child.She would stay one night with him and i would stay the next night.After a few times the hospital asked me for proof of a relationship to him as i was staying overnight.I didn't have any so they called DCS. A few days after he was released from the hospital we received the paper work from DNA and was 99.99% my child but DCS case had to be settled cause she was 17 and was to be in care of the family living here. We went to DCS and Sons mom,GF and myself were asked to take a drug test. I was clean and GF failed for THC and sons mom failed for Cocaine and THC.DCS had to place him with immediate family and DNA test wasnt enough proof and were going to place him with his grandmother in IL.My family talked to her and she would sign power of attorney to me and DCS said i woul have to move out of GF house. This was the 19 of Dec. She continued to stay in TN but was stay with dealers and i didnt feel comfortable that when she turned 18 in 2 months she would get him back and not have a stable place to live.I talked to a atty and went for full custody and she had supervised visitation. She hooked up with her other sons father and they were living about 30 miles away.She saw him a few times in a few months but her BF went to jail and she moved back to IL and came and saw him once after that but he was still not walking then.
I have a few pics of her and don't know how to explain to him why she isn't around.Gonna talk to him next week before he starts school so he wont tell people he doesn't have a mom.Any suggestions would be helpful.
I found out about him Nov. of 2006 and he was 6months old at the time.His mother came down from IL where she was living at the time and was going to stay at my moms cause i was living with current GF.(GF didnt like her but had never met her only thru mutual friend that quit hanging out with her when sons mom moved here b4 i knew her) GF decided it was alright if she stayed with us for a while.She had began to hang out with some of the people she hung with b4 moving to IL. My son got phenomena and was admitted to the hospital.At this time we had sent off for a DNA test but i didn't have any proof he was my child.She would stay one night with him and i would stay the next night.After a few times the hospital asked me for proof of a relationship to him as i was staying overnight.I didn't have any so they called DCS. A few days after he was released from the hospital we received the paper work from DNA and was 99.99% my child but DCS case had to be settled cause she was 17 and was to be in care of the family living here. We went to DCS and Sons mom,GF and myself were asked to take a drug test. I was clean and GF failed for THC and sons mom failed for Cocaine and THC.DCS had to place him with immediate family and DNA test wasnt enough proof and were going to place him with his grandmother in IL.My family talked to her and she would sign power of attorney to me and DCS said i woul have to move out of GF house. This was the 19 of Dec. She continued to stay in TN but was stay with dealers and i didnt feel comfortable that when she turned 18 in 2 months she would get him back and not have a stable place to live.I talked to a atty and went for full custody and she had supervised visitation. She hooked up with her other sons father and they were living about 30 miles away.She saw him a few times in a few months but her BF went to jail and she moved back to IL and came and saw him once after that but he was still not walking then.
I have a few pics of her and don't know how to explain to him why she isn't around.Gonna talk to him next week before he starts school so he wont tell people he doesn't have a mom.Any suggestions would be helpful.
