Buy a NOID light, $3. Use the noid light to test for a signal at the injectors. If you are getting a signal, then the synch sensor in the distributor is working. It is a replaceable part, and they will go out, but much less common than the crank sensor. If you have spark then the crank sensor is working, as that is what the ECU/PCM uses to determine when to trigger the spark.
Check to see if you have power to the pump at the correct times.
Power to the pump when the key is turned to the ON position is through the ASD relay, bypassing the ballast resistor, providing 12v to the pump for 3 seconds, then the ECU/PCM will cut the signal to the ASD relay if it hasn't gotten a signal from the crank sensor.
Power to the pump when the key is in the START position is direct from the starter relay, bypassing the ballast resistor, providing a full 12v to the pump.
Engine running, from idle to just short of WOT, power to the pump is from the fuel pump relay through the ballast resistor which reduces the voltage to the pump for quieter operation.
At WOT, power is direct to the fuel pump from the oxygen heater relay, bypassing the ballast resistor, providing a full 12v to the pump.
Now, all that said, if you have flooded the engine while cranking it with 1) bad plugs; 2) low fuel pressure; and 3) low voltage from a discharged battery, and combine that with extremely low temperatures and fuel with ethanol (if required in NJ), you are set up for a hard time to get it restarted.
Fuel, air, spark, compression, all at the right time at the right places. I would charge that battery for a minimum of 24 hours, then take it in and have it load tested. Starters are dirt dumb and really don't care much about voltage as long as the amps are there. On the other hand, if the voltage drops too much while cranking, say near 9 volts or less, then the electronics are not going to work properly.
While the battery is out charging clean the cables--both ends, and while you have them disconnected test them with an ohm meter. Resistance should be near ZERO; if not, replace them. Good time to renew all of the grounds, firewall, dipstick tube, block.
While all of this is going on pull the plugs and let the engine air out.
Post back and let us know what you find.