ok, so i just was educated by my engine guy. See the grooves in the rocker arms, really arent grooves, they just look like them when you dont pick at them with your fingernail. They actuall are ridges that stick up instead of down. Anyway, the pivits have grooves in them when new and after 200k of running, they had worn these ridges into my rocker arms (which come new with no grooves, ridges, or anything apparently). Glad i didnt put them on crossing eachother or it would have squeaked like crazy because the pivit would be only riding on these 2 little ridges in the rocker. So, i was educated today, and also placed an order for new rockers and pushrods. Thanks everyone!