Update finally!
I spent the weekend working on my Jeep. I purchased a fuel pressure guage to find out exactly what is happening. I let my Jeep idle for 45 minutes and the pump didn't hum at all. The fuel pressure was rock steady at 33psi. After 45 minutes I ziptied my pressure guage and took it for a drive while it was still hooked up. Sure enough 5 mins after driving the jeep the fuel pump started humming. I took it back home and checked the pressure guage. Now the pressure had dropped to 29-31 psi and was jumping back and forth. I revved the engine and the pressure dropped to 20psi, I revved it harder and it dropped even lower. So I have determined that my fuel pump is giving out after it starts humming, but I still have not figured out what causes it to hum.
At this point I figured i'd replace the fuel pump again just to be safe, so I dropped my tank, took out my fuel pump, and took it back to Autozone to get it replaced only to find out they sold the pump I ordered to another customer!
So I decided I would just bite the bullet and pay the difference for a better bosch pump. Turns out Autozone does not even sell any other pumps than AirTex. I called Advance Auto who said they had a bosch in stock so I returned the AirTex pump to Autozone for "store credit" (cuz they wouldn't give me money back) and headed for Advance. When I get there, they go in the back to find the pump and realize their inventory is off and they dont have one. When they tried to order one, it turns out the Bosch pumps are discountinued. Advance only sells Airtex, Bosch (well they used to sell Bosch), and an offbrand that they dont even have any information on. All the local stores are out of everything except Airtex, so I left Advance with nothing.
What I did find out is that I can buy a Bosch fuel pump from Chrysler for 90 bucks, but it has no sending unit. Unfortunately I turned my origional fuel pump in for the core and gave the Airtex pump back to Autozone....so now I am without a sending unit even if I did want to buy just the pump.
I called Napa and its 215 bucks for a rando Napa brand Fuel pump/sending unit combo...which I was told was way overpriced for what I would get. Soooo, does anyone know where I can purchase a fuel pump/sending unit combo that would be better than buying another Airtex?