He was bs'ing you the AW4 is the model of the automatic tranny used in Cherokees. Tell xjnation to shove it, we like our stick cherokees right? Incidentally, clutches have been known to last over 150k with a good driver and probably no abuse- like wheeling :(
I am also running Luk gold clutch and I am satisfied with the performance and feel of it and the price was right. Incidentally, I bought it in 2001 and that was 55k ago, still going strong with a fair amount of beating.
NAPA where I work has also introduced a new clutch line to phase out the remanufactured ones, I am eager to know how their product holds. The price is pretty low, I am not saying go and buy one but I would like to know how our new clutch line is working out for people.
They are Perfection Clutch and also make the ZOOM line of kevlar clutches you see in performance and rice circles.
Maybe you need to do some tune up related work on your jeep. My jeep is damn hard to stall, you almost have to work at it. Once I killed it coming off the freeway and it after a second I pushed the clutch in, one of the spark plugs must have fired because it started by itself. My XJ has a mind of its own.