IMHO, the society that makes decisions based on rigorous rationing is much healthier society. That is why at the local level, in Washington,DC and on the international arena no one signs a law or an agreement at gun point.
Same with kids. Spanking works, it also works really fast. Explaining that misbehaving child why everyone perceives his/her behavior is unreasonable, thats another story. But thats also part of the healthy upbringing. Thats how you really build a "common sense", because their little brains are like sponges, you start explaining the little things, and eventually their brains apply this rational in the decision process and as time progresses, it becomes a second nature. But that process requires time and patience.
Nothing is accomplished without reasoning. It is evident even here in this forum. What happens when someone utters a profanity or a threat? Well, you know, I dont have to tell you...and if it is bad the mighty administrator steps in and shuts the thread. Is anything resolved? Of course not. All parties are even further divided.
Same with life. All of you have lived enough to understand that it is much easier to demolish something than to build. Good things dont happen overnight, it requires a lot more work to build. Guns work short term. They fail to accomplish long term results. You can find such supporting evidence on the national and the international arena. Societies in which reasoning is replaced with fear do not work. I am naive enough to believe that as the humanity matures, the actions that humans undertake are more and more based on rational reasoning rather than emotions. I am also naive enough to believe that in this forum is still possible to debate and not argue and it is still possible to be friends even with views that span the whole political spectrum.
I just realized that haven't answered your question yet: My son is 17 and hes been spanked by me a total of four times, which I regret. As a result, despite what his friends think, he is not ashamed to show up with me in public, if you know what I mean. With regards to this discussion...last weekend we exchanged our Christmas presents, since won't be home. He got a very nice all metal Tompson Chicago mafia-style airsoft gun. He tried it once and despite of all the excitement that it brought, he put it down out of respect for the Newtown, CT victims.