Don't trust Grade 5 bolts for this kind of application. The idea that Grade 5 are better because they "give" is a fallacy that keeps being passed around as gospel. I was an engineer and have two engineering degrees if that is a consideration. There are two common strengths associated with bolts, Yield Strength and Tensile (or ultimate) Strength. Yield Strength is where the bolt begins to deform, but does not fail. Tensile is when complete failure occurs. For Grade 5, Yield is 92,000 psi and Tensile is 120,000 psi. For Grade 8, the Yield is 130,000 psi and the tensile is 150,000 psi.
So the Grade 5 will completely fail before the Grade 8 begins to deform. The myth arises because people assume that because a Grade 8 is a harder alloy, it is more brittle. Hardness and strength are not the same thing.
Don't gamble, use the Grade 8's where they belong, or Grade 10.8 in metric sizes.