The forward fitting is where the fluid is pumped out of the trans. The rear fitting is where the fluid reenters the trans. If you check a parts catalog, it gets confusing, but everything I've read on here so far says that's the setup.
The book calls one of the two high pressure lines (front fitting on trans to threaded fitting on rad) a return, and the other a supply, while the low pressure line (QD on rad to rear fitting on trans) is called a supply. As to which line people refer to by saying "return"... I haven't figured that one out either. The routing for the OE cooler in the catalog didn't appear to be the same routing people typically use when installing coolers themselves. Clear as mud? I've been reading up on this, and it still doesn't make much sense. I wonder if it really makes a difference- the "right" way depends on which book, and who you're asking, or so it seems.