as an 18.5 year veteran about to retire in a few months who is right now on a carrier returning from deployment soon, I am somewhat mixed. I see some of the younger guys here who needed this. It gives them direction and focus and some mentoring to make changes in their lives to get on track. I see others who are not meant for it and are only able to survive independently, not under rules or authority. Furthermore, the Navy, at least, is less "military minded" today than 1-15 years ago with a military based on education and technology with budgets in mind where in older days the answer was to throw more money or people at a obstacle than to think through it and come up with a cost effective efficient way. We are somewhat an "enterprise" in a lot of ways... in some ways like a company whose job it is to provide a service as defined by the leadership way up. What all this means to you? It means that it's not the movies you see from what the military was, nor it it the recruiting commercials on TV, but is somewhere in between. You will learn a lot, you will grow as a person, you will develop teamwork and unity... but you will also stand a lot of stupid watches and do some crappy jobs that don't make a lot of sense to you, just like a regular job in the civillian world. Still, like mentioned above, that recruiter is a salesman. His job is to sell that service. Also, just like a car dealer, they aren't trying to sale any car, but are trying to get you to buy their car... the recruiter is not selling the military in general, but his particular service. They do work together sometimes, but not at a detriment to themselves. Get everything defined clearly and get everything promised on paper. If it's not clearly on the contract, it never happened. Also beware of obligated service for those promises. You may get a couple thousand dollars, but did it cost you a couple extra years? And think.... a bonus of $6k for two years isn't that much of a bonus. Finally, read it all over several times and understand it all before signing. They are in a hurry and will try to hurry you through. What is routine for them could be a big difference in your life. Above all, if they tell you thsat you have to commit to something right then or it will be gone they are just pressuring you. They will get you something that suits you and that you qualify for or you should tell them to call when they CAN get it. If you walk because they didn't get you the right job and circumstances, I PROMISE they will call back later with something suitable. They will try to get one over on you, so insist on what you need in life. Next, bootcamp is a head game. Almost everyone can do the physical and mental part of it. the only challenge is knowing when to let the BS roll away and not affect you... they are just playing their rolls, and then they go home to their normal lives as normal people. The real military is nothing like bootcamp, and bootcamp is designed as an extreme environment to reprogram as part of a group. So if it's what you want ask all the questions and decide what's best for you and go for it, just know that the commercials and movies are not reality. (actually, the show "Carriers" is pretty accurate, and the XO from that ship is now my CO.) Above all, hold onto your rig... you'll want it when you finish bootcamp. So many people sell their rides before leaving and then wish they had it... you'll appreciate a bit of something from home and what you like to do. Maybe I'll see you out here one day?