Have you considered a distribution post that isn't on the battery? That's how I wired up my accessories...
As far as wire gage sizes - all numbers are American Wire Gage (AWG) sizes, and (legend has it) are originally derived from how many steps through drawing dies it took to get mill stock down to the given size. That's why the wire gets small as the number gets larger.
I've seen wiring from 4/0AWG (that's 0000AWG) down through about a 36AWG. The 36AWG was used for things like data interconnects on circuit boards (where a trace couldn't be drawn directly,) with things like telephone wire or twisted pair LAN wire taking a 24AWG.
0000AWG has the copper part about as thick as your thumb. Seriously high current here - you need to move more than that, and you're getting into "entry" sizes (which run anywhere from as thick as your wrist to as thick as the average calf) or Buss bar (which is simply a bare, rigid, solid copper bar.)
Anything listed as a number of zeroes is wiring that's larger than the typical 1AWG, and multiple zeroes are typically condensed as "2/0," 3/0," or "4/0." (Pronounced "two-aught," "three-aught," or "four-aught," respectively.)
Figure anything larger that 8AWG will need a "press crimper" (or a hammer crimper,) and even AWG is borderline (depends on your forearms and your crimper, more than anything else. My staking tool will only go up to 10AWG, although I've crimed up to 6AWG by hand pressure.)
If you need a hand designing your setup, hit me backchannel and I'll see what I can do to help.