Update:
Well I just got it back from Tarheel 4wd today, they discerned that the noise I was hearing when I took my foot off the gas pedal was coming from my transfer case, so they took it apart and found that my chain was stretched and about to go bad (in their terms, my t-case was disintregrating). So $500+ and several hours later, I have a new chain on my t-case, new seal, and a new alignment.
The guy (Phillip) at tarheel said he measured my rear axle and said I didn't need axle shims, that they were at the right angle, 3* already, and 4* shims were a bit too big anyway. So I exchanged them and got a whole $9.99 off my total.
He also said that several techs drove my Jeep and didn't feel any vibrations, which I'm guessing is good (Tim you need to come down and see if you can tell a diff.)...
Luckily, my folks haven't enquired yet as to the cost of that...which is good, and I hope it stays like that. I already owe them a fair amt. of $ as it is...
It seems to drive about the same, apparently it was pulling to the right before and I never noticed it. But I'm still hearing the same noise as before when I take my foot off the gas pedal, like a grinding/vibrating noise, but it only seems to be happening between 40-50mph or so, whereas before it was getting worse and happening between 20-50mph or so.
And I still feel like I'm hitting either the front or rear axle on my driveway curb when I back out of my driveway, b/c there's a distinct loud bonk! noise, but it's only when I'm reversing in a driveway...
I guess it could just be me being paranoid, but honestly I'm not entirely happy with the way it drives and if I hadn't sunk a small fortune into modifying it, I probably would take it back to stock...:gonnablow
Anywho, that's the progress so far on it. Will keep everyone updated as to any new mods/additions etc.