things I have destroyed on the trail:
sheetmetal (who cares)
LCA and UCA mounts (don't wheel with a really rusty axle, and gusset those brackets.)
UCAs (I was going full retard / high speed in rocks.)
LCA (mildly kinked a stock one. I was in a small local offroad race and going fast enough that people were surprised my turd made it home. they're harder to break than they look)
stock tie rod (slid my stock 98 into a snowbank while having fun in a parking lot. I have abused the hell out of V8 ZJ tie rods on 33s with no issues)
axleshaft, balljoints (some retard installed my new ujoint, and I was on the throttle and bouncing in rocks locked on 33s. not a good mix)
shocks (buy good ones, or get crappy autozone ones with a lifetime warranty and carry spares. I'm on my 3rd or 4th set)
frame (don't wheel rusty jeeps)
AW4 (this was actually on the road, but it died as a result of a LOT of skinny pedal over the course of a year, on 33s, with stock gears. if it had made it another 60 miles it would have died gloriously on the trail)
NP231 (bumpstop your junk so your rear driveshaft doesn't make sweet sweet love to your transfer case)
pinched the trans cooler lines by the engine mount / UCA (bumpstop, or reroute lines over the mount)
also blew a tire off the bead (big deal who cares) and ripped a valve stem off (carry spares.)
I carry spare valve stems, serp belt, thermostat+gasket, waterpump+gasket, lug nuts, brake lines, fluids, CPS (for my year and whatever others I have on hand), sometimes TPS, fuses, oil and fuel hose, hose clamps, d30 parts (shafts/ujoints/stubs/bearings preassembled, spiders), 8.25 parts (shafts, spiders), UCAs, LCAs, assorted suspension bolts, steering parts, balljoints, balljoint press, ujoints, radiator repair materials, driveshafts, and occasionally spare axles, transfer case, and transmission, if I just picked up some parts and was too lazy to unload them before going wheeling.