having bright headlights that blind others doesn't increase your safety. In some places you can actually be pulled over and given a fix-it ticket, or told to return them to stock. Happened to someone I work with.
Get some offroad lights and wire them into your high beams. If an upgraded harness, a good H4 conversion, and offroad lights wired in with the highbeams aren't good enough for you then you need to get your vision checked.
I have IPF H4's, eAutoworks harness, IPF fatboy bulbs, stock foglights, and KCs wired in with my high beams. I've gotten comments from passengers on how bright my headlights are, yet when driving towards my jeep there is no glare. It can be done if you have the intelligence.