I'm not going to drive 25 miles to Ecology to get all muddy for a damn bolt. Just not feeling that today, so the extra few bucks was worth it to me.
I went to Napa and picked up the part that GrimmJeeper recommended. It turned out to be 2 bolts, and the spacers and rubber covers also, for 8.99. Took that home, hoping to clean up the threads enough for the new bolt to thread ok, but i couldn't. So i had to go back and pay over $40 for the Helicoil kit and proper drill bit. Luckily i had the key to my gf's XJ so i didn't have to risk it with mine. It's all done now, and the helicoil kit that i didn't have money for is now up for sale in the for sale forum.