Both are of interest to me, as well, but I still think it can get like discussing religion or politics at a cocktail party.
I know that my brother and I have never agreed on either. We both drove, autocrossed and hillclimbed 2-seat AMXs, so you might think we would tend to have them set up the same. If you thought that, you couldn't be more wrong. At one time he was running an AMX with factory "rallye" suspension and he was using Monroe Load-Leveler rear shocks. Those are the shocks with the integral coil-over, for trailer towing. He thought they were great. I followed his car on a twisty, hilly country road one day, and every time he crested a hill you could see that the rear springs were literally launching the tail of the car, and the rear wheels were leaving the ground at each crest. When I mentioned it to him later, he didn't have a clue what I was talking about.
It's my unsupported view that spring rate and shock damping rate (or proportion) should be roughly inversely proportional. In simple terms, if you have stiff springs you don't need stiff shocks, and if you have wimpy springs you need more shock to control compression.
On a more technical level, what would be ideal would be the ability to adjust shock rebound and compression independently. A stiff spring resists compression fine, but needs the shock to resist extension. A soft spring doesn't require as much resistance to extension, but needs the shock to be better able to dampen compression. However, the shock manufacturers don't publish or release the damping characteristics of their shocks. In general, I think they are mostly engineered to be about 50/50 -- equally resistant (or equally not resistant) to both compression and extension. That's probably okay for stock suspensions, but when you move into the realm of enthusiasts who are trying to optimize and fine-tune a suspension for particular performance parameters and personal preferences, it's not helpful. Knowing the spring rate is helpful, but unless you can also select an appropriate shock absorber to match the performance curve of the springs, you really haven't accomplished very much.