Another update,
I did some steam cleaning of the caked on crud on the rear around the fuel pump and wiring, and I still have to check on a couple of things. I found now I get no red check engine light, and when I go to diagnostic mode, I get nothing. I have cleaned and prepped the ground for the PCM, which is now bare metal. No change. I have discharged the PCM and tried resetting it, and nothing. I am now wondering if the PCM is my culprit. I was planning on going to the JY and pull another one from a similar year XJ, since the FSM doesn't really hit on any way to truly test it for proper operation. I attached a 22guage wire to the battery negative, and it proceeded to heat the wire up and melt the wire's insulation. I will try and see if I run that wire to another source of ground and see if that doesn't do something different. I didn't seem to hear the relay energize, but I also tried several different relays and the effects were the same.
Should I try a "replacement" PCM and see if that does it, since that pretty much controls everything? All my relays are testing good per the FSM. I know it is expensive to just start throwing parts at it, but this seems to be getting a little rediculous. Everything I have been testing, seems to be testing correctly, but I can't test MAP, IAC, O2, and some of the other sensors, without getting the engine to operating temp. And since I can't even get spark out of it, its now got me starting to go bald with the hair I'm starting to rip out. Thoughts now??
Jeff