I'm located in North Bay, couple hours north of Toronto.
Maybe I should talk to some local jeep club members as they maybe be able to Diagnose better then me.
As for the flush and additive, why GM specific ones, seems there is tons on the market or the kerosene or diesel ones I always see. Not that there would be anything wrong with the GM one. Your pretty much saying do a flush and then during the oil change put in an additive.
I'm confused about your rear main, are you saying its not or it is leaking or it was and you fixed it?
I was planning on the Napa gold but does anyone know anything about the ones Carquest carries cause I go there for parts most of the time and would love to get it all from one store.
Also when I refill I was thinking of going with high milage oil. They are ment to help with stuff like this right?