3.5" OME lift with 32s?

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I'm going to be getting new suspension and I'm trying to figure out what will work for me and I need to hear from some people who have what I'm looking for. I'm currently on 2.5 puck/shackle lift and 32s with trimmed fenders (I plan on keeping 32s). I want to upgrade to OME suspension and I cant decide between 2.5 or 3.5. My biggest concern is handling, this is my daily and my only car, I don't want to lose the ability to take it on the highway safely. I just want to hear from some people who have their xjs lifted 3.5 inches. how did the handling change? notable increase with death wobble? slip yoke eliminator? any other modifications to fix handling issues after lifting it? any input/advice would be appreciated.