My 95 ran hot at low speeds and I ran a switch on the e-fan. How I did it (which is probably not the best way---but it worked) is I pulled the relay in the box under the hood and used a wire to find which lead would turn the fan on (by running a wire from each hole to the battery until the fan turned on...IIRC it was the closest hole to the passenger fender) and ran the wire from the correct hole to a toggle and got power from the under dash fuse pannel and it worked. Using this procedure, the fan would no longer come on unless the switch was on and would not shut off when the key was removed.
Like I said above, this is not the correct way to do this but it worked well for me for quite a while.