My XJ is at 6.25" of lift, 4.0L, auto, 231, real SYE, custom front and rear shafts.
Few weekends ago I busted the rear yoke on the D44 while I was on the throttle pretty good, and the driveshaft flopped around a bit and the Ujoint damaged the splines so that I can't extend the shaft anymore. I had two stock XJ auto front shafts with me. Collapsed length was identical to the custom Tom Woods rear shaft!! Not sure about extended, as the Tom Woods won't extend at the moment. AFter puttin on a new yoke, the stock XJ one bolted right up and I wheeled two more days with it. I've been driving around on teh road with it as well, and it works perfectly!! I know the diameter of it isn't as large, but I think it's still plenty strong in most cases. Plus, they're cheap. So if a piece of the driveline is going to fail, I say twist/snap the driveshaft, because there are tons more of them available for under 50 bux at a junkyard near you. Sure beats messing up gears or an axle shaft.
Here is my damaged Tom Woods shaft. You can just barely see where there is some blue that the trunion hit the splines and damaged them. I'm sure I can file it out no problem, but the stock XJ shaft has been working fine....so I have yet to get to it!
Also, an XJ front shaft with a manual is about 2" shorter than the one for the auto, with the same amount of travel. And then the front shaft from a ZJ (which are pretty much all auto) is about 2" longer than the XJauto front shaft. So between these three cheap shafts, I'm sure you'll be able to find one that works for you for a fraction of what a custom shaft costs...and have a few spares as well!