Ayuh - I keep a spare in the toolbox, and a largish pair of pliers is standard road kit (as is a 1/8"NPT pipe plug - just in case I managed to trash one somewhere.)
A couple of tips:
1) Use "red moly" grease or engine assembly lube to lube the o-ring on the filter - not oil. Both of those will stick better in use, and release better when you take them off.
2) Turn the oil filter to not more than "contact + one-half turn." This means that when the oil filter O-ring makes contact, you have one-half turn only to go. This is where the lube monkeys screw up...
3) Work on your grip and forearm strength. If you've done the install right, you don't need a wrench to take the filter off when you change it.
The only tool I need for an oil change is a 9/16" wrench for the drain plug - and I'm working on an acceptable tool-less solution for that as well (probably find it in my Russell catalogue, if I could be arsed to look.) That should be all you need as well - if you've put the filter on properly, then it comes off easily and without tools.