go down to the local buffet joint and load up a couple times a week, you will find that seat gets softer all the time. Ok, all jokes aside, I have been looking for a set of those nice leather seats for my 97 due to the same proplem. I have set in a 04 grand that had leather, and man, those seats where better than my sofa at home. I think if you could find an older grand with leather seats, that would be the end to your pain in the but.