Reverse, neutral, shifting during a slow roll and shifting again during braking. They get stiff and refuse to shift, if they haven´t been used for awhile. Rocking, reverse and low, tried them all at one time or another.
Is the transfer hanging or is it just the axle shift motor hanging up (does the 89 have the axle shift motor?)? You can tell, when turning a corner if the transfer is still engauged, most times.
If you have a shift motor on the axle, a vaucme leak (fairly common) will mess with axle disengauge and engauge. I occasinally sprayed some WD-40 into the vacume plugs on my shift motor, seemed to help. If you go to remove the vacume lines from the shift motor, be careful plastic gets old and brittle, twist a little before pulling.