I don't really know much compared to a lot of guys here... I just get bored at work and like to help out with what I do know :spin1:. If you can find a tag on the front diff that has the numbers "3 55" on it, that is almost certainly what happened. It's also why every time someone says "can I regear only one axle at a time" we say "yes but pull the front driveshaft so you don't put it in 4wd accidentally" and stick to that, even when people say "lolololol ur dum just don't use 4wd, why pull the shaft".
Simple trick to find out what gears you have in each axle - chock both wheels on the other axle, and one of the wheels on the axle you're working on. Jack ONE end of the axle up, leave the other on the ground (the one you chocked.) Put the transfer case in neutral. Use your hands to turn the wheel exactly once while counting turns of the pinion yoke. Double that number, and there's your gear ratio - for the 4.10s you think you have in the rear, you should see the pinion yoke turn approximately twice. If I'm right and you have 3.55s in the front, you should of course see around 1.75 turns on the pinion.
EDIT: this isn't gonna work if you have an autolocker or LSD in the diff, obviously... you need to jack both wheels up to test that. If you have LSD/an autolocker, you also don't double the number of pinion turns, what you see is what you get.