well figured out what the problem was... chalk it up to I am an ass. :dunce:
For those who care... back during fall I locked my keys in the car one night at dinner, and had to use a coathanger to slim jim the lock open. In the process of doing this I yanked the wire and harness that runs from the lock button to the actual lock. I opened the door up and plugged it back in the next day. Turns out I routed the wire wrong, and the the window was coming down on the wire. The metal clamp that holds the window on the bottom and follows the round guide bar had opened one of the wires up slightly and thats where it was grounding. But this was only when the window was open, which is why its been happening a lot recently, because the temps have been getting warmer this month (in the 70s all this week) and I have had the window open quite a bit more than usual.