Suspension questions

I am sure questions like this are asked all the time but I will start it and if I need to redirect let me know. I have a 97xj and I am looking at lift kits, I am looking at between 3.5 and 4.5 I am wanting to run either 31's or 32's. It is also serves as my family hauler and dd. because of that i am looking for one that gives a some what smooth ride but not soft. I have been looking at ruty's off road 4.5 spring pack kit or the rubicon express 4in kit. I also looked at the tera flex long arm kit but it comes with add a leaves and i am wanting a full pack. i know I could just get a full pack and accomplish the same thing, how would the tera flex long arm do with rubicon express 4 in springs for the back, I am also looking at putting a 241j in instead of doing a sye. Any feedback will be greatly appreciated

i use the RE 4.5" super flex kit. 4 years later and all ive had to replace is some poly bushings. but that might be my fault, as all i did was tighten them like crazy, without torquing to spec. i like it, the 2 things id add are drop brackets and shackle relocation brackets for a mint ride. RE monotubes are nice, though i have nothing to compare them too. everything that has gone wrong since my lift was my fault or chrystlers, none of the RE parts have failed.

i need a SYE, the 241 would be even better.

mine is a '97 as well.

are you talking about drop brackets for the trac bar? my experience with poly bushings is I would much rather run rubber, you can definatley tell a noise difference between poly and rubber, I just installed poly's and I am about to go back to rubber. I can't hear my 3 year old daughter talking because of the road noise it is driving me crazy.

He's talking about control arm drop brackets for the LCA's. And shackle reloc. brackets for, well, the shackle angles.