I'm running a B&M 70268 with a high-end Autometer gauge w/ 2 °F graduations on the face and the sensor installed in the temp port on the side of the AW4 case. The hottest it got this past winter was ~180°F while romping on it but during normal light-to-light driving, it very rarely got above 160-165°F. No stop-and-go around here to test. On the flip side, I have a 12 mile drive to work; a few lights, then a long stretch, a few lights and I'm there... When it's down around 40°F, the gauge rarely breaks 120°F and when it's down around 20°F, I've made it all the way to work without the gauge breaking 100°F or a number of occasions. I bypassed the radiator last winter when it sprung a leak and made me fiend a strawberry milkshake. Ran it with just the cooler this past summer while abusing it with numerous 20 mph jaunts while in 1st gear pulling 2,500 lbs. Added the temp gauge this past fall so I really only have 1 winter worth of numbers; for what they're worth...
Another observation that's relevant to the conversation but for which I don't really have any data is the fact that the aux fan doesn't kick on nearly as early as it used to during those sustained 20 mph jaunts in 1st gear, indicating to me that even when the radiator is good and hot, it's still pulling heat out of the transmission fluid when you're abusing it...