Gawd. ACT UP all over again. Anyone else remember those fruitbats?
I still say the best comment on the gay "lifestyle" came from my wife's former hairdresser - himself a gay man, who ran the shop with his partner (I'm not sure which role each of them filled.) "If you want to be gay, be gay. But don't be a farkin' fag about it."
I wonder just how many "mainstream" homosexuals are as offended by the antics of the militant fruitbats as the rest of us? It's kinda like the "Gay Pride Parades" up there by you, Tom - ever get stuck with the Fag Show between you and where you needed to be? It's happened to me a couple of times, and most of those people have been so over-the-top that I couldn't watch, not even with the sort of horrified fascination one tends to have for roads incidents.
And yet, when someone up in the Midwest (Wisconsin, I think) wanted to get a permit for a parade themed "It's Great to be Straight" some years back, he was denied. Reason? "People might find it offensive."
Like it's not offensive to shut a whole section of the city down (effectively) for a freak show?
Once again, and just for the record - I am not against people being homosexual. Either team - guys and guys or girls and girls don't bother me (and I've had a few gay friends - we'll talk about everything else, but leave sex out of the conversation. No need for grown-up people to talk about it anyhow, I think; and what consenting adults do behind closed doors is their business - but don't get me started on the NAMBLA jackasses...) But, it's the "over-the-top fruitbats" that want to push for mainstream acceptance of the more, er, "exotic" elements of their "lifestyle" that bother me.
"Nature or nurture"? The jury is still out on that one, and I'm not sure we'll have an answer. I'm sure arguments could be made - based upon sound principles - in either direction. However, if it's "nature" then I'd consider it a mutation in the genome that expresses itself on an individual level. Why? Becuase any mutation that would express as homosexuality is biologically self-defeating, since homosexual couples can't breed. Meaning that the genetic mutation also cannot be easily reinforced. "A zygote is a gamete's way of producing more gametes. This may be the key to the Universe."
Frankly, I'm leaning more toward it being a self-defeating genetic mutation, similar to the one that probably causes vegetarian impulses. Arguments against vegetarianism are also biological - and easy enough to prove. Simply compare the structure of the human being to the typical herbivore and to the typical carnivore - there are more carnivorous elements to our structure than you might thing. Stereoptic vision, dentition, slightly enhanced vision and hearing, the ability to "spring" upon prey - we're apex predators, who just happen to have the ability to eat pretty much anything that can be chewed and swallowed. It's just that some of us are "more carnivorous" than others (like me) - just as some of us are "more straight" than others (the big thing I don't understand about male homosexuality - men don't have boobs. Boobs are too much fun to live without! Of course, this results in a double standard - boobs being too much fun to live without makes it easier for me to understand Lesbianism... Sue me.)