Well, I've taken a couple of radiators apart (threw them in the scrap bin - cut them down so they'd fit easier...) and that cooler is a simple shape, and should be brazed rather well - since it's got to NOT leak in a hot water environment while containing rather warm and low-viscosity oil.
I've not pressure-tested one, but the idea is interesting... Perhaps you could try it, and let us know?
The upper connection is a standard flare (I don't recall the size,) and the lower connection should use a QD fitting - but will probably accept a rubber hose. Else, it's also a standard flare.
You'll be wanting a "sandwich" adapter to go under the oil filter - it will route the fluid through the cooler/warmer before it gets filtered, so it would warm the oil before it's circulated through the engine.
The additive you're referring to is ZDDP, and it's not used in the API SL-series "Energy Saving" oils. Flip the oil over, and read the API ratings - if you see something like "SL/CD" (I don't know what the current Diesel rating is offhand...) then the oil is rated for use in Diesel engines, and will contain ZDDP (since Diesels don't live long without EP lubricating oils.) If it has the API "Energy Saving" sunburst on the front, chances are it only has an API "S" rating, and isn't fit for use in Diesels. The "S" refers to "spark ignition" - the typical gasoline engine - while the "C" refers to "compression ignition" - what makes a Diesel work.
As I recall, the "cooler" for the ATF is in the "hot" tank of the radiator (the upper hose goes into it,) which means it's going to be exposed (via a copper barrier) to hot coolant - which should help keep your oil at operating temperatures. An interesting idea, and I'd like to see your field report after you've run it for a little while...