Ktilcu,
I'm guessing since you said that you've got "one for power from the relay..." that you're following Daffy's advice and running the switch on the ground side of the relay's activation circuit? It that's true, you'll actually have two grounds coming from the switch: one that grounds the relay circuit, and one that grounds the circuit for the light inside the switch (the third contact on the switch would be coming from the relay).
If the switch is on the uphill side of the relay (ie. the power is switched before running into the relay), then you've got: a positive coming from the battery (or ignition hot source), the continuation of the relay activation circuit (running to the relay, and then to ground), and the ground for the switch's light circuit.
In a clearly marked switch the three would be labled: '+' (for the power source, or if switching the ground: power from relay), 'Acc' (for switched power going out to the relay/accessory, or if switching the ground: to ground), and '-' (for grounding the switch's interior light). I've found a lot of switches aren't labled clearly, so you might have to do some experimentation with a volt meter to find out which is which.
Hope that helps.