We need info on what parts were included with the lift, specifically did you install new upper and/or lower control arms, or are you still using the stock arms? Also, what are the specifications for the alignment? More than likely they did NOT correct the caster angle, only checked it for toe-in.
Also, just because you paid money to have the tires balanced does not mean that the tires were balanced correctly. However, tire balance problems usually show up at around 50 MPH, so in this instance I think you need to look at other factors.
Try a search. There have been other discussions about death wobble -- recently.