I take it you have a 90 XJ with the stock cooling system, am I right?
There have been a lot of discussions on here about conversions. I considered it but the later version radiator does not have the fitting for electric fan switch in the cold tank. For that reason alone I decided to stay with the stock configuration.
I did a write up on things to do to your cooling system. I have had the GDI 3-row which I got at Autozone but I replaced it after 4 years when I found it was leaking from the end tank seam. I went with a Modine 2 row radiator which I purchased at the Modine Distributor in town.
From the expansion tank on the firewall I have determined that the modine holds more coolant than the GDI.
I vote for staying with the stock configuration, install a modine, change thermost, mechanical fan clutch, radiator hoses, heater hoses, and the pressure bottle. I get the thermostat, radiator hoses, heater hoses at the dealer. I get the fan clutch at the parts store, and the pressure bottle form quadratec.com for $20.
I was driving to Chicago on Christmas Eve and it was 10F in Indiana. As I went down the road I'd watch the engine get to 190 then heat up to 205 then the load of cold water would enter the engine and drop to 190 and start over again. It would cycled in less than 2 minutes. I am VERY happy with my modine, I felt unsure with the GDI. The modine came with a brass drain while the GDI had a plastic drain.
Depending on your town any parts store should be able to get you one. There are also web sites where you can order one.