Looking for a Jeep God in Central Nebraska???

I need some help, seems to be alot of problems with the late 80's XJ's with the 4.0L. Maybe it is just my lack of knowledge or i just have one cranky XJ. My 97 Dakota was totalled about a month ago by some lady that couldnt wait to turn in front of me, I cuss her out every time i open my Cherokee door now as this is my only vehicle at the present time. I need some help, people can tell me to look for this and that, but when there is multiple issues i get too frustrated. PM me if you are the one........please.........

Thanks,
Cory