OK, I think I've got some answers.
1) Which Firebird steering box?
On the NAPA site, I inputted my 1989 Firebird, and went to "steering components".
Two steering boxes showed up:
NSP 88277081 (W/Softride Suspension) (under "Specifications": # Steering Gear Box Turns 3 - 3 5/8)
http://www.napaonline.com/napa/en/p/NSP88277081_0370982772
and
NSP 88277101 (W/O Softride Suspension) (under "Specifications": # Steering Gear Box Turns: 2 1/2 - 2 15/16)
http://www.napaonline.com/napa/en/p/NSP88277101_0370982777
Clearly, the steering box WITHOUT the "Softride Suspension" is the correct one. My WS6 Firebird turns the wheel at 2 3/4 turns, lock-to-lock. That's right in the middle of their stated spec.
Aside from the Steering Gear Box Turns, every other specification is the same, and comparing the photos, they look identical.
So, I'm pretty comfortable saying the NAPA part number for the "good" Firebird steering box is definitely NSP 88277101
http://www.napaonline.com/napa/en/p/NSP88277101_0370982777
That brings us to:
2) Will the "good" Firebird steering box fit my XJ?
On the trusty NAPA website, I changed my vehicle to "1996 Jeep Cherokee Classic"
It only showed 1 steering box: NSP 88278111 (under "Specifications": # Steering Gear Box Turns 3 3/8)
Now I know that box is a 3 /38 turn box because, instead of doing this research BEFORE my steering box went out, I put it off until AFTER it went out, so I had to put this box in my Jeep.
Anyway, comparing the specs of the Jeep steering box to those of the "good" Firebird box, they are the same, except for the lock-to-lock turns.
Comparing the photos, they look identical, too.
I'm virtually certain this is the box: NSP 88277101 (W/O Softride Suspension) (under "Specifications": # Steering Gear Box Turns: 2 1/2 - 2 15/16)
I'm going to go to the NAPA store where we bought the Jeep steering box, and see if there's anything they can do. My buddy who works on my Jeep buys all his parts there, maybe the manager will give me a break.