IMO...
Until and unless the gap is closed via a hardened spacer, this installation is unsafe to drive. It is only a matter of time until it self destructs from the CA sliding back and forth. A motion that is never to be allowed to occur.
As to the thickness of the CA itself, if the part works in an acceptable fashion on the JK then it will, most likely, hold up on an XJ. There appears to be no reliable data on this so, who really knows?
BUT....
That gap needs to be closed. My recommendation would be to remove the CA and measure it off of the suspension. Just subtract this from the XJ CA and get a spacer made.
IMO... The use of a non hardened washer to take up space in the suspension is just asking for yet another failure point.
Again IMO, the spacers should be hardened to at least 60 on the Rockwell scale.
But then again, what do I know...