front of crossmember

so i was reinstalling my crossmember and one of the holes is about 1/2" off and can't get the bolt in, which wouldn't bother me if one of the other bolts hadn't snapped, only difference is sides is one side has elongated holes and the other doesn't, which side is drivers side?

thanks

89 mj 5 spd crossmember

Mine has the elongated holes on the drivers side, AW4.

You can tell which side is the passenger side because it has a notch in it to clear the exhaust system.

it's perfectly symetrical aside from the different shaped hole, i'll flip it around sometime this week and check