Your engine should still have a lot of mileage left in it. With a little TLC, the 4.0 will go well past 200k miles. Your combustion chambers and valves might be gummed up with carbon deposits causing a slight loss of performance. Get a can of Mopar Combustion Chamber Cleaner, spray some of it via each plug hole into the cylinders, and leave for about an hour. Spray the rest down the TB with the engine idling. Once finished, rev the engine up and watch the clouds of gray smoke come billowing from the exhaust.
Also change the plugs, plug wires, cap, rotor, air filter, and fuel filter if they haven't been done recently. Your cat could be plugged up so you could try gutting it.
Finally, a stroker engine should last as long as a 4.0 as long as it's built to the same tolerances and treated with the same respect.