It only cools really well if everything else in your system is spot on. I swapped to the HD ZJ clutch from NAPA about two weeks ago. It does work exteremly better than stock, its loud as hell, and at @ 3500 RPMs people on side of the street look at you like your "disturbing" them, it is that loud. My cooling system is spot on, new waterpump, radiator cap (often neglected), thermostat, and spot on 50/50 fliud ratio. I also don't have an AC condenser up there. Mine will go up to around 210-215 in stop and go when the ambient temp is above 80. Most of the time it stays between the first mark and the 210.
You already stated that you didn't get the NAPA clutch, but thats not that big of a deal, a new clutch should perform pretty well.
If your coolong system is up to par, than you should be fine with that clutch. One thing that wasn't mentioned is that the Temp gauge in these things are not accurate by any means. Whats 210 on your gauge might be around 200 on anothers. Your rig sounds normal to me, as far as the fan goes.
How is the condition of the rest of your cooling system components? As I mentioned, one of the most neglected areas is the radiator cap. Don't guess, just replace it, ten bucks.