Sounds like your problem is that the balancer is moving as you try to remove the bolt??
If this is correct, you might try a small pipe wrench and grip the inside and outside of the balancer and let it rest against something stationary...like the PS gear. The bolt should be standard thread....meaning righty tighty and lefty loosey. Get a long breakover bar, or use a cheater over your rachet and apply steady pressure.....make sure you won't hit your knuckles when it breaks loose.
Preferable a air impact would be the easiest, but you have to remove a lot of stuff to get clearance.
I did one on a Ford crown vic the other day......used a 1/2 long handle rachet with the pipe wrench and then had to put a cheater on the rachet handle, but it broke loose.....the rest using a puller was easy.
Good Luck!