Like almost everyone else here has stated, -cork can't be beat. The key to making a cork gasket work is installing it correctly.
On the 4.0L with the nice cast aluminum valve cover, there is simply no excuse to not get a cork gasket to seal.
A trick I've used for years is to "glue" the gasket to the bottomside of the valve cover with gaskecinch, indian head, high-tack, etc, then lay the valve cover down on a flat surface with some weight on it and allow the glue to set up for several hours. Then, simply grease the unglued side of the gasket and set the valve cover on the head. One other trick is to use spring washers (lockwashers) on top of the flatwashers. When tightening the bolts, only tighten until the spring washers are compressed flat, -do not be tempted to keep tightening them because they feel loose, -the bolts won't come loose and fall out, -trust me.
I agree with Rick on RTV being just a little bit slippery and allowing gaskets to "extrude" when you attempt to compress them, -not good. Some may argue that the grease idea would do the same, -but if the gasket is glued to the valve cover, it won't happen. The light film of grease allows you to remove the valve cover in the future without needing a new gasket (within reason of course).
The steel core neoprene gaskets do work well on the rigid cast aluminum valve covers (like on the 4.0L), but they don't work worth a darn on anything with a stamped steel valve cover, because they require waaay more compressive force to seal than a cork gasket does, -and distortion of the stamped steel valve cover is always the result, -ending up with a leak after spending righteous bucks for the premium gasket (been there done that).
Cork is the shizz.