The Hi-Mileage Oils that have additives that help condition seals, its usually esters that cause the seals to swell.
I guess its possibel to get a seal to swell to much and it gets torn up on the moving parts, or maybe the seal was bad to begin with and the swelling from the aditives just made it worse. I don't know, say a small tear in the seal, the swell caused the tear to open bigger?
I personally use Mobil1 Synthetic 10W30 in all my vehicles, its true Synthetic (PAO, engineered from building block chemicals), not phoney synthetic like Castrol Syntec (hydrocracked conventional oil that is ultra refined and passed off as PAO Synthetic oil). When I changed my cylinder head on my 2.0L Neon at 65k miles, the head only required washing with soap and water and it was spotless, looked brand new, not a single deposit, no residue, fresh clean metal. The cross-hatching still looked brand new on the cylinder wall. I've switched to Mobil1 in my '91 Caravan 3.0L mitsubushi at 180k miles, it ran smoother, qieter and eleminated the valve tick. No problems with leaks, the existing leaks in the motor were a little wetter with oil, but there was no increased oil consumption, nor dripping from the motor.