LT OME shocks damping question

I have moved my rear shock mounts up and am using 2" OME shocks and longer bump stops. I have a 4.5" RE kit and LT OME shocks on the front. Question is, the LT OME shocks only come in one damping rate where as the 2" OME shocks come in a soft and a hard, if I want to match the 2" OME on the rear with the ones on the front should they be the soft or hard ones. The ones that I am using are the soft ones. I have not quiet finished installing the kit yet and have not driven it.