Just a WAG (wild arsed guess) but I've heard there is a difference between how far the late and early model ball joint studs fit into the seat.
You may be able to feel if something is wrong, by loosening the nut, whacking it with a hammer just hard enough to unseat it and pushing sideways on the threads with a wooden hammer handle. There really shouldn't be any side play, with the nut snugged.
Figuring out if the seat is oblong might be harder. In similar situations, I've painted a seat with a black magic marker and spun the stud lightly in the seat. I used a little valve lapping compound. The low spots show up pretty quick.
I usually take it to the specified torque, then tighten it to the next slot to insert the cotter pin. I doubt as big as those studs are they are gonna be that torque sensitive. But if they have been over torqued, you can often see it on the threads, if you look close.