once again you guys have been a great help, but unfortunately my jeep hates me i believe. the rounded nut is still on there. i got a nut splitter at autozone, but it didn't work. and when it slipped, it bopped the power steering pulley. i thought nothing of it until i spun the pulley out of frustation and when it hit, it took a chunk out of the edge of the pulley, a good size chunk... wtf?
just to give you guys an idea
when i replaced the header panel and such after my accident, i let the nuts soak in pb blaster for like 3 days before i started to remove the damged header panel. twice a day for 3 days i went out there and sprayed em. the day i start pulling everything apart, the nuts holding the header panel to the fenders came off, but they took part of the studs too. wtf? and i did loosen, tighten,loosen and i broke 3 studs. when i had to remove the header panel again, i was removing the nuts on the radiator support, they pulled out 2 of the studs from the header panel. i went to replace the thermostat, i break the t-stat housing.i went to replace the heater control valve, the new one is leaking, exchanged it, still leaking and there is no holes in it. i checked it thoroughly. grr, and now this. sorry for the long rant. i appreciate the help you guys have been, and i love my jeep. but this is so frustrating and discouraging because of my lack of cash right now. i'm almost debating on towing it to a shop, but that would defeat the purpose of everything i've done so far.