You can look for a 96' or later Wrangler with a 4cyl. The Dana 30 front will be low pinion. As BillR said, look for an XJ with a 4 Cly between the years of 91-98. The later years you will not only be able to get lower geared axles but the larger U-joints as well.
For the rear axle, only look at Dana 44's, Ford 8.8 explorer, or Chysler 8.25.
Your best bet would be the Explorer axles. They require more modificationsto get them to fit, but some were geared to 4.10 and maybe have a Limited slip.
Chyler 8.25, is a direct swap, 4.10 with the 4cly models, but I think they would be kinda rare.
Dana 44's are great but you would have to regear them.
If you were going to get a D35, get the earlier model, non-c-clip. Came in some 2.8l and the 4 cly. XJ's.
I commend you for looking at gears first, with stock tires your crawl ratio would be really nice! Most go for the big tires and lift and then realized, that there rig sucks, because they have no power or too much wheel spin. Both of these can cause unexpected breaks on the trail.
www.car-parts.com is a good database for searching, Have fun!