Newbie lift help!

Hey guys. I just joined this forum because I am going to be getting an XJ within the month. I am already planning what I am going to do to it but there are a lot of things I dont know. I am thinking about doing an RE 3.5 inch lift with 31" tires. However, I noticed the kit doesnt come with a stabilizer, track bar, and other things. Can anyone tell me EVERYTHING I would need to ensure I do the lift correctly? I will be using it as a DD but also on trails. Nothing too extreme, just your average beginner trail rig.
I realize this is a long post but any help is appreciated!
Thanks!

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